she began to cry more than often

"The New York Times' weekend supplement freelance writer Daphne? Merkin successful career, had a daughter, the looks different from ordinary people, only she knows, as a" disease of age, "more than 40 years of chronic depression patient, every day she had been in battle with hopelessness.

Merkin's recent decision to discontinue the long history of psychotherapy begin from childhood and memories of the treatment record book, perhaps she was "new" opportunities, or just a short "leaked."

Since the age of 10 receive psychological treatment

Mo Kim, 56 years old, she received psychological treatment period spanning 45 years. Beginning in childhood, psychotherapy has become her life indispensable part.

For Merkin, a depression brings a sense of despair and abandonment familiar. She said that whenever his own childhood to look at pictures of the year will see their own shining eyes and smiles. In the eyes of others, it is a innocent child; only Merkin I know, she was already like other depressed patients, wear a pair of "I'm fine," the mask to face the world.

Merkin from about the age of 5 or 6 years old, began to feel anxious for the future life. She always felt that things do not desire to develop their own, even though she was born in part because there are many children in a family, personal opinion is difficult to get attention.

About 8 years old, out of fear of leaving home and parents with anxiety,orari tiffany milano, Mo Kim refused to go to school. 10 years old, she began to cry more than often, had to go into hospital for treatment.

Mo Kim said she did not know at that time whether it has been diagnosed with depression,deadline to medical treatment, but after a few years in retrospect,40 on the 6th,scarpe hogan donna outlet, a child to go to school, it is chronic depression patients do not want to leave home performance.

1950s to 1960s America, is Sigmund? Freud's psychoanalysis of the most popular period. At that time,Avid readers will go to visit, to see a psychiatrist is a stylish, even something to be proud of. However, a 10-year-old children receive psychological treatment is still rare. Therefore, Merkin first time to see a psychiatrist, psychological stigma filled.

To make matters worse, the doctor gave her doctors and Mo Kim Walsh different religious beliefs, so that the latter preconceptions think there is a gulf between the two. Dr. Walsh even sympathetic attitude let Merkin suspicious.

For the time of silent gold, both inside and outside the clinic belonging to two worlds. In the outside world,and a white old man lose much less win., whenever she spoke,User agrees this practice, someone to listen; and on the inside of the world, people tend to ignore her,giubbotti simili al woolrich, and that she's anxious for no apparent reason or for ridiculous reasons.

Bright end of the tunnel is a train

In 40 years of experience in medical treatment, Merkin to more than a psychiatrist or therapist for treatment, tried various drugs or treatments. According to her statement, he is a depression treatment methods and drugs "walking dictionary."

Previously, every time to see a new psychiatrist, to try new drugs or treatments, silent Waldo expect miracles happen, I hope this can be completely cured of their disease. However, once again let down Merkin gradually lose confidence. She said that 40 years ago, we always in a psychiatrist's office to talk to other people talk about how much I love the tone of longing and death.

Mo Kim said, in a way, once people suffering from depression, you can never completely heal. It is in a corner of the human heart wandering lull due to treatment and re-accumulation of energy to be making a comeback at some point.

Mo Kim said she increasingly difficult to understand how someone could see the bright side of life, to their hopes. Wake up every morning, her mind is always such a thought: Why is it so there is no hope. Too late. Give it up. Go back to sleep. No hope.

Compared to the average person,the and another four teachers with leadership, always with depression see the dark side of things. Mo Kim hit a vivid metaphor, it's like people walking in a long tunnel, see the end of the tunnel appears bright. In the eyes of ordinary people, the light means exports; while depressed patients will think: Is this not an oncoming train is what

Mo Kim said she knew a lot of people considered suicide a coward and selfish behavior, but she believes that with longer duration of depression, sicker patients will gradually be regarded as the only way to get relief of suicide. She said that did not commit suicide because of worry about their daughter's death will bring great harm; but at the same time, she always felt removed the piece meant to leave her head clouds.

Merkin wrote often to the media, about his struggle with depression experience. From her words,outlet moncler lombardia, you can clearly feel her pain.

"Lack of human touch," the psychiatrist who

Merkin recalls his experience with more than a psychiatrist. She said that these doctors are men and women of different ages, the treatment methods used there are differences, but most doctors have in common is that they lack the human touch. Merkin that in the eyes of these doctors, he was just mental illness, rather than a flesh and blood person. In their view, the treatment of unilateral acts, patient treatment, doctors prescribe, the process is not a bilateral interaction.

One of the doctors strongly recommend Merkin accept shock therapy,woolrich junior, in total disregard of her fears; a doctor treating forced Merkin memories of past painful experiences, eventually admitted she collapsed.

Merkin over 30 years old, her mother had a doctor for help, the latter proposal Merkin had intermittent contact with her boyfriend of six years of marriage, think that it can alleviate her condition. But the fact is, Merkin was canceled a few months ago in this marriage with her boyfriend.

The doctor and the mother of all Merkin believes Merkin is a loyal person, the possibility of "derailment" divorce is unlikely. Then, after a hasty wedding preparations after three weeks after the meeting. Mo Kim said he "got married" is the possibility to reduce the occurrence of repetitive.

Marriage outcome is Mo Kim and her husband divorced five years later.

Mo Kim recalls her childhood, never had a psychiatrist so she sat in his lap, giving her comfort; more than 40 years, doctors have never done anything to stop her, even though it is debatable. Doctors are always talking about her illness with no emotional rhetoric, had never put their feelings.

The only exception is A doctor. Mo Kim said he accepted his 20s treatment, although they often quarreled doctor,moncler junior,because his girlfriend after 90 express, but A doctor is the only one to get the other side to make her feel recognized, you can completely trust the doctor. However, A doctor soon died of illness. Until now, Merkin still think he is the person most likely to bring a miracle.

These therapeutic experience, so Merkin treatment of depression, even should or should not question the implementation of treatment. She sometimes that a doctor practicing medicine just for the money,he will be a year of consultancy fees 10, not to help the patient.

Doubt but rely

Merkin said that 40 years of treatment experience although it can not make their own statement, "chronic illness into health," but for psychological treatment programs when the doctor gives,moncler outlet trebaseleghe, she has familiar. Doctors often say that psychotherapy can "transform" the patient or give them to "breathe new life", but that is not always the case.

According to Freud, psychotherapy is not a way to find a cure for mental illness, but the "hysterical pain" into "common misfortune." This means that psychotherapy is no strict criteria to judge the progress of treatment, there is no definitive treatment goals can not guarantee no recurrence of the disease, can not determine how much treatment is sufficient.

Merkin questioned said that if Freud said is true, then what is the significance for treatment treatments take effect she believes that in the absence of strict standards, the patient is difficult to determine at what stage progression to the most appropriate treatment, which the most effective treatments and doctor's commitment to patient comfort if only "blank check."

Merkin that in the field of mental therapy, doctors tend to rule the entire industry. For example, can not determine the end of treatment time, even if there is no progress in therapy for a long time, doctors can also continue to implement the original plan. Meanwhile, the doctor can be attributed to the lack of progress or the patient does not try to "resist" treatment, rather than lack of treatment options exist.

Mental illness expert Robert? Michels at "psychoanalysis and its discontent," wrote an article in the patient's view, "the purpose of the presence of a psychiatrist or therapist is not to provide services for them." "Patients want to answer, the doctor asked them questions; patients want to suggest, trained doctors are not allowed to do so; the patient wants to support and love, the doctor explained the disease and the cause; the patient wants to feel better, the doctor was talking about changing the character. "

In addition, different treatment methods used by psychologists, although there are differences, but there are a lot of overlap, so that an effective method to determine which treatment becomes more difficult.

Merkin said he stopped by the minister to consider treatment. But on the other hand, 40 years of treatment experience made her psychiatrist and treatment of dependence, fear once stopped worst possible consequences.

"Breath of fresh air."

Despite the long plagued by depression, Merkin still completed graduate studies to become a literary critic, essayist and novelist. She has worked in New York, a number of media, now is a freelance writer, "New York Times" Weekend Supplement, the 1980s also published a novel.

Not long ago, Kim went silent L doctor's office, telling the latter to decide the implementation of a year and a half of treatment interruption. As it is completely ended or suspended, Merkin did not give the exact answer. To her surprise, L doctor did not say that her decision was a mistake and tried to persuade her to give up, but agreed to her request, but the enthusiasm expressed Merkin can come back at any time to continue treatment.

Mo Kim said she took pleasure to be free of fear and worry deterioration leave L doctor's clinic. On the road, she deliberately slow down, step by step, step on the ground, it seems that this method can confirm her presence. She found that left the psychiatrist, the world still exists.

Merkin is writing his memoirs, about his many years of experience of treatment for depression. She wrote to the "New York Times" article written in a weekend supplement, she sometimes does psychotherapy would cast doubt on the treatment made her feel trapped in an unpleasant childhood experiences, their own money spent on treatment boondoggle . But she admits that she benefited from psychotherapy in some respects. By accepting treatment, she can from other people's point of view to look at ourselves.

"You can say that psychotherapy is my valve," she wrote, "Give me a psychotherapy can talk place to express their feelings and help release the pressure in my heart."

"Psychotherapy is my buffer, while pushing me forward; after all, it allows you to examine, to teach you to recognize the fact that if you let me years of therapy formation is dependent, I decided it was a breath of fresh air when the ....... However, I'm sure, in the near future, I would definitely go on the road to another psychiatrist clinics continue my story. "(Lin Hao)

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According to the 2005-2008 survey, American adults over the age of 20 suffer from depression about 7%.

US Department of Health and Human Services Department in October 2007 published a survey report on the United States in different occupational groups, the incidence of depression. The report shows that in the 21 categories of occupational groups most likely to suffer from depression are people who work in the personal care, such as infant care staff, such as nursing home care workers, the incidence rate as high as 11%.

The second highest incidence of cooks, waiters and other catering service personnel, 10.3% of them were suffering from depression. Followed by health and social workers,chaussure nike tn pas cher, the incidence rate was 9.6%. Engineers,peuterey uomo prezzi, architects and surveyors have the lowest rate of depression, the incidence rate was 4.3%.

The report also pointed out that people who work full-time average incidence rate of 7%, significantly lower than the 12.7% of the unemployed.

The survey also found that the incidence of women is much higher than men, the incidence of slightly older young people.

The main symptom of depression is difficult to extricate themselves depressed mood, often accompanied by insomnia, constipation, abnormal cardiovascular conditions, nameless pain and physical discomfort, so that patients suffering from mental torture at the same time also much physical pain.

Causes of depression are complex, including genetic factors, environmental factors and personality factors. If the parents of a person suffering from depression, the prevalence of children on the possibility of 10-fold increase. Many patients have a family breakdown, unemployment or poverty unfortunate experience. In addition, introverted,costo woolrich, do not like contact, not good to vent negative emotions people are more likely to suffer from depression.

Because patients with depression are often subject to misunderstanding and discrimination against people around, so patients are often reluctant to admit that they are suffering from depression, do not want to see a doctor, the result is to make the condition worse, many patients do not seek immediate medical attention and cardiovascular disease and more serious diseases such as cancer,hogan sito ufficiale, 15% of patients with depression and even suicide.

The report notes that depression has become an intractable social problems,giubbotto moncler, the United States in recent years due to depression, the loss of a large number of productivity, annual economic losses of up to 30 billion to 44 billion US dollars. (Lin Hao)