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Recently,was on duty, a PhD is about gay husband Pianhun news and jumped to his death became the focus of attention. Deceased named Luo Hongling,abercrombie france, Sichuan University during his lifetime was a Korean teacher. June 15 morning, Luo Hongling from renting an apartment on the 13th floor balcony falling, died on the spot. July 18, Chengdu lead a media carried a report on the matter,another had contact with Porsche 4S shop, sparked heated debate online. Why local media reports issued in more than a month after the incident? With questions, Shandong TV "investigation" of reporters rushed to Chengdu on the matter was investigated.
 
Luohong Ling and her husband Cheng Jiansheng rental house located in Chengdu Branch Road, a residential area north within. Because of the house near the end of the lease in August, her parents these days are finishing things. In the day of the incident two old arrived home from Chongqing to Chengdu, and now more than a month later, things are still not settled, the daughter's body has been kept in the funeral home. Speaking of her daughter's things, Luo Hongling mother agitated. She said that on June 14, that is, the day before the incident,louis vuitton outlet, her daughter and son talking about divorce,students should focus on life, about 3 o'clock in the afternoon, her daughter gave her a phone call. They are also more at 21:00 via a telephone.
 
The next morning, my daughter jumped to his death a. In Romania home parents, is Cheng Jiansheng deception, daughter cornered.
 
It is understood, Chongqing Liangping and are people, they have the same level of high school students in different classes, when the two men living in the school no intersection, also went their separate ways after graduation. Until July 2011, both working in Chengdu, introduced by a friend started dating.
 
had described the forum post in the two first met: "just encountered when really Trick, a variety of fit." And their "matchmaker" Liu also said that when two people really love the feeling Okay. Was far from his hometown in Chongqing's mother, also from the phone to feel love when sweet daughter.
 
Does it really love the two friends saw and heard it as smooth as sweet? In Luo Hongling reserved SMS, the reporter found such content.
 
November 23, 2011
 
Cheng Jiansheng: I love you. Really. I will never mess of people and flirt Kazakhstan. Kazakhstan does not lie.
 
Luo Hongling: ah, I believe you. I also think that to be my good you're back again.
 
December 5, 2011
 
Luo Hongling: think you are not always very insecure, everywhere your dish, skittish. This is not practical feeling really uncomfortable.
 
December 23, 2011
 
Cheng Jiansheng: my wife, do not cranky. I'll do all that mess to clean up. Wholeheartedly come to you.
 
Luo Hongling: ah, I hold grudges, always afraid you're tired and I am sorry for me.
 
From the message content, the in love had found and others having an affair, also see through the lies. But love couple,nike tn, indeed inevitable bumps. Anyway, in love six months later, the two men in this year's January 23 to receive a marriage certificate.
 
Jinjiang posted on a forum post,Liu Kang Min immediately jump, chronicles the lives of two married state, and ask someone who has ideas on how to create a so-called family atmosphere:
 
Never thought that one day there will be so Jour. During the day there is no active calls,hormonal problem, text messages, directly from work to the gym to stay two or three hours on weekends to go to class, the middle interval of the size of the Cold War ...... after a few days of this month, already feel like I still love myself ...... he also said he loves me, but is that two people stay together when no longer sweet love, I still want to try, the marriage should not be this way it ...... seeking someone who has Weapon,If you do not drink, say anything good. The so-called family atmosphere, how to create?
 
Web page display, this post is Published March 6, 2012 from the two licensing married for less than two months.
 
In reply netizens, there are a lot of people have suspected her husband's sexual orientation, but Luo Hongling's reply was: "Orientation can definitely ruled out." Because Cheng Jiansheng before marriage has confessed that he is bisexual, he did not need Pianhun.
 
Until June 13,negozi tiffany, that is, two days before the incident in silence for more than three months forum posting said suddenly:
 
Three months later, I came to announce the answer. Upstairs all wise wise-sided and sisters, you are right. My husband, on the law, he is a homosexual. From start to finish, never changed, from beginning to end, are lying to me.
 
In more than 20 posts in the subsequent issue, said the events took place in the middle to let her doubts, but each time was overthrown explanation, she had help on the forum, looking for girlfriends cry, complain with their parents, or even to Marriage counselors and psychologists, but still can not escape. until after the lie was exposed again, Luo Hongling finally decided to end the marriage:
 
I later came to understand, in fact, not how clever hoax, but the use of premarital I hate married thirty years of psychological, even if some doubts, and he gave smooth; the marriage of it, is what I use, particularly I fear my parents become divorced women is not a matter of principle always feel exposed,hogan sito ufficiale, you have to be able to run-run-in, we can not say from the off ah ...... because some message of hope, be willing to deceive yourself.
 
June 14, they began formal talks divorce matters. However, just in about 8:00 o'clock suddenly open to apology on his micro-blog, while acknowledging that he is gay. Matter between husband and wife, how he would choose in the microblogging apology it? Since the original Pianhun purpose is to conceal themselves, why should open their own gay identity in the microblogging it?
 
In the interview, the reporter in Luo Hongling student was able to get some sound recordings. This was a few days after the incident, they talk of recording and .
 
Luo Hongling husband did not think they cheated wife, and he made a face in front of his wife in front of their own when it comes to recognition of gay microblogging.
 
However, so-called "family shame should not be," With this microblogging open, not only a person's privacy Cheng Jiansheng, Luo Hongling Pianhun husband was gay things also will be made public. Now that we have no way of knowing at the time Luo Hongling see mood when this microblogging can not judge whether it is this micro-Bo, completely destroyed her psychological defense, she pushed the point of no return.
 
At 3:00 on June 15 and more,louboutin sito ufficiale,after cutting veins both drin, Luo Hongling wrote the last one microblogging:
 
Too many lies and deceit, too much doubt and suspicion, too much mockery and subversion'm really tired of this world, then, let's all over it ......
 
Two hours later, she was falling from the 13th floor of the balcony, the end of his young life.
 
After the incident, Luo Cheng Jiansheng between what parents have been asking what happened the night before the two men, but so far have not give them an explanation.
 
In the taped conversation with the student in Luo Hongling, Cheng Jiansheng said that his wife committed suicide the night before, they did not quarrel, very calm.
 
Only child leaving home to let Luo parents lose, and change the attitude of the family after the process, leaving them feel chilling.
 
After the incident, Cheng Jiansheng has admitted that his primary responsibility is not to take care of Luo Hongling, he has 70% of the responsibility, and promised to support Luo Hongling parents. But then, Cheng Jiansheng has never been seen.
 
Sharon is alive Luo Hongling colleagues as an intermediary, she participated in several of the incident two negotiation mediation.
 
Ms Lau said in who had been texting pledged to repay thousands of dollars, except look again receive compensation of around 200,000, but the family said the process had only a 80 000.
 
It is understood that the two last consultation was July 18, when Luo Cheng Jiansheng sister in private homes and reached 300,000 in compensation agreement. But that night, but said the way home, or only pay 180,000.
 
Just two day consultation,hogan sito ufficiale, Chengdu, a newspaper carried a report on the matter. And this became the reason for the family refused to negotiate away the results. In Romania home parents, which is totally away family looking for an excuse.
 
Luo home parents, said June 15 incident, there have been a number of media interviews to come, if not they repeatedly refused, how the media reports will be issued in more than a month after the incident? But now,nike air max outlet, in view of this attitude Cheng family, they decided to no longer refuse media.
 
Today, both sides accused each other of a lack of sincerity, negotiated two people have reached an impasse. Then,basket nike pas cher, as her husband, Cheng Jiansheng for Luo Hongling death in the end should bear what responsibility? Two people have been deadlocked for the compensation issue in the law in the end there is no reference standard?
 
Zhou Xiaomin lawyer is a well-known local lawyer, he believes the focus of the case is that the man is to inform each other before marriage, their sexual orientation. If there is conclusive evidence that the man had told or partially informed, so that he can legally less negative or irresponsible. If not informed, then this is a fraud, you need to bear legal responsibility.
 
The specific amount of damages, lawyers said Zhou, need to deceased income,scarpe louboutin, income expectations and circumstances of the case, such as her support of the population were considered.
 
In the interview, Mr. Zhou also hopes to remind the case of marriage and Luo Hongling similar experiences of women, do not choose to commit suicide on the road:
 
Know the situation in their own after her husband, first, if the advance has been informed of the consequences of homosexuality should have a good understanding of the problem; second, found that he did not tell you that you dream sleep early, it should pick up the legal weapons give him sound treasure, goodbye, like a divorce, and then continue to walk the road of life, worthy parents, teachers worthy, worthy of the love of your family and friends, rather than take the path of suicide.
 
In Luo Hongling of books, stationery reporter accidentally pulls out the few, the above is she did not know at what time transcribe some verse lyrics. Which one is Faye Wong's "pawn." Her marriage, whether, as the song sung, is a long-laid trap? And she is really beginning to end,nike tn requin, just a pawn in the hands of her husband? All this, only Cheng Jiansheng,requin nike pas cher, able to give her the real answer.
 
According to estimates of the relevant public interest organizations, currently in China, about 20 million of gay tendencies, 80% of them chose the marriage under the pressure of public opinion, but does not know most of their spouses. In Luo Hongling incident, if Cheng Jiansheng can in a responsible manner as soon as possible to Luo Hongling Frankly, if the revelation when Luo Hongling able decided to break up, and pick up the legal weapons to protect their rights and interests, perhaps the tragedy would not have happened . The problem with the wife, marital status groups, triggered by this event, and with the death of the wife's responsibility to define the problems and maintenance issues Shidu compensation, but should cause concern and thinking society.
 
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