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Survey: When the flag-raising ceremony speech to high school students were asked to go home to reflect on the girls confession, how do you see?
 
Xi'an, the school flag-raising ceremony on
 
1600 students face in front of you suddenly sophomore confession - "I just like her, to be responsible for her future."
 
You said you always wanted to say that you know your own impulse can you say "really refreshing after the confession,Soushanshengzhi Er � §, but it makes me cry the first time I saw Dad"
 
Some people say you courage
 
Some people say you should not do so regardless of where someone says you dizzy
 
Many people think that boys should learn sophomore, distractions
 
But we heard the audience thunderous applause children are still young and frivolous Ganaiganhen? Why adults this debate?
 
Really you are wrong? Our thinking is cured?
 
We have grown still remember those moments budding youth still remember those years chasing girls had in fact this is just adolescent impulses
 
A youth grew up with memories of the agreement, so sincere, and you have endless talk, and I've not tell you is friendship or love miss.
 
"Dandelion's Promise" Jay love to sing a lot of people's feelings, but we express love but it is wonderful, April 8, east of a secondary school in the flag-raising ceremony for a boy like girls confession, perhaps He just quietly enjoy the girl, perhaps he was feeling like her, perhaps this feeling has nothing to do with love, and perhaps also the feeling that everyone who had occurred under the flag of speech ...... boy suddenly vindicate
 
The audience burst into applause after one minute silence
 
April 8 in the morning, a middle school east, 1600 students are participating in the flag raising ceremony. On the podium, Ding High School boys are doing "Thanksgiving parents reverence for life" on the topic. Suddenly, the sound coming out of the microphone and some strange: "I just like her,louboutin pas cher, to be responsible for her future ......" audience quiet a minute later, the roar of applause. Ding confession being pulled down by the teacher podium.
 
At such occasions, in the presence of 1600 students to express their feelings, the courage of the boys is what so many people curious students.
 
A day later, the school's director of Church and State Tao responded that the flag-raising ceremony to declare 17-year-old boy,hogan outlet, was transferred to the high school, went to school in Beijing before, usually partial introverted, elected him to the speech teacher, wanted to give him an opportunity to exercise. Who would have thought Ding would come at the end of such a period of confession speech. She only heard the following "Girl," "she," and other words, do not feel right, it quickly came to the little Dingla down.
 
Zhang said the school's vice principal, the teacher let Ding took the stage, indicating Ding is a good student performance.
 
After the end of the "speech", Ding admitted to the teacher, he was a girl to tell the truth, but before Qingming holiday that took the stage when they have to, there is the plan.
 
It was made the same day the Internet, thousands of people are concerned about:
 
Users want the school to encourage a student straightforward courage
 
Ding day after the confession was not long before it was sent to everyone online. In the evening, this post has been forwarded to one user of Sina Weibo, a very short time,http://www.home-staging-deco.fr/, would attract thousands of people are concerned, over 700 comments, most have a new perspective on behalf of these:
 
@ Mushroom power red beans taste: nothing wrong with expressing feelings,louboutin soldes, have to play! But where some of the problems! Do not raise the national flag when it!
 
@ Look forward to a very exciting journey: after a many years, back to that school, you took the girl's hand, in the eye and smiled. 2 years later, you return to that high school alone, standing under the flagpole, I think that all of a sudden grow their own, and smiled. All good.
 
@ "Greening the balcony," said: To the school, please encourage a student straightforward courage, it should not give his life shackling, please relax your mind,nike tn, let this brave man, he should be able to continue to finish the walk End of the road.
 
It also triggered a strong public discussion. Some people think that Ding is a Ganaiganhen brave boy, also suggested that, regardless of the occasion Ding dizzy. Ding absolve someone, I hope to give Catholic schools; Ding accusations that he was too young and not qualified to say love.
 
"If I had a son, I'm tickled to death." Mr. Zhao extremely excited people, he liked children. Bold pursuit of what they want in today's children who commendable.
 
After I heard about it, newsroom raged
 
How to let the children know the feelings of adolescence is the focus of debate
 
Ding confession aroused strong friends in discussion, but also triggered a wonderful newsroom debate,prezzi hogan, how to render it, to the children what kind of transfer point of view,tn requin pas cher, is the focus of the debate. News editor and visual director after more than 40 years old have heard, joked: "immediately thought of those who have experienced their own to school, and unfortunately he did not have the courage then, just put on the goodwill of female students in my heart, no give youth left some wonderful memories. affection age beautiful and simple, have a good impression would venture to say it. "
 
Cautious Xi'an news editor, said that while the children to express their feelings,Ltd. Bank of Wenzhou, but regardless of where his confession would not mislead other children? If we just blindly praise, will not let the other children rallied to emulate? Select the raising of the flag when the confession, where there is a problem.
 
An edited version of the delicate beauty that this thing has been caused by the pressure of the child, whether it is or is confession confession, we must let the children out by reporting errors, not let them leave psychological shadow.
 
Hotly debated 40 minutes later, we unified view, we must tell this child, this thing is no big deal. But they have to make children understand the feelings of adolescence, although simple and beautiful, but be sure to choose the right occasion, expressed through appropriate ways. Confession and feelings is never one thing, only handled well in order to become truly wonderful thing.
 
For the "confession event", the school did not intend to get to the bottom:
 
Now the first cold treatment will not cause harm to the child and pressure
 
On the flag-raising ceremony in front of the school's 1600 students brave face confession, how the school will deal with Ding has become a focus of attention. Yesterday, the Internet rumors that Ding was dismissed, however, responded that the school will be a modest deal, but it will not be very serious, let him go home now reflect on. "He is an adolescent children, we think he's guilty of confused, they think of love in front of carried away." Tao said that although the school is not allowed to advocate, but also education and persuasion based. Now let's go home Ding reflect mainly want to know what he should say anything doing occasion.
 
Zhang, vice president of the school, the students in the adolescent yearning for the love of the beautiful, each person may have experienced, this is understandable, but to do so in the flag-raising ceremony Ding, can be said to be a farce. If not addressed, the school is difficult to educate other students worried, frightened by the other students to follow; but when dealing with the school will be careful, the premise is not hurt students, does not give the two children pressure. After the incident to reflect on why let Ding home, wanted to deal with the cold, let things calm, do not bring the parties to the two children psychological shadow. Vice President Zhang said the school teacher about to know which girl, but the teacher never asked the girl saying, is worried about her pressure.
 
Vice President Zhang said the school has been specifically informed of each class, so that all the students try not to talk, after all, Ding also go back to school to finish his studies.
 
As Ding when to return to school, the school said there is no timetable.
 
For this confession, the boy has his own understanding:
 
"Like a person is not wrong, but do not hurt the others."
 
In fact,doctors also found a very serious problem, no matter how you talk, Ding this thing already have their own understanding of what happened after, micro-channel screenshot Ding has also been made on the net, micro letter said:
 
Thank you for your encouragement, I could not tell you finish this crazy time of the high school. Under the flag of speech is really very exciting, you cheer is my motivation, thank you!
 
108 You know my heart yet? For I will give you the pressure is really sorry, do not control me, I was voluntary,, I love to see you reading, happy, laughing look. So continue your studies is the best for me encouragement. I hope a favor, we do not ask who she is, do not give her stress, this is not what I want. Thank you.
 
After the confession is really straightforward, but this the first time I saw my father cry. I ** What kind of shit,air max pas cher, I could not even cry qualifications are not. For this reason I have to pay a heavy price, so we do not learn my impulse, like a person is not wrong, but do not hurt anyone else. In my behavior today is bounded (ring). Do not fudge.
 
Experienced this great storm strengthened my resolve to not live up to their parents, if I have the opportunity to go to school on an exam. Experienced this storm, wiped away tears, I was a hero.
 
For Ding bold move, experts say:
 
There is no right or wrong, just the occasion and timing inappropriate
 
Family Practice Research Education experts Meng long learning that: improper practices Ding occasion and opportunity can not be wrong conclusion, he just express. But it also reflects the neglect of family, school and society for his emotional education. Ding reason for this expression of emotion, usually described personal feelings he expressed little opportunity and occasion.
 
Meng long doctrine, and now the family and school education, more attention is the child's material needs and academic performance, but very few of them emotional education. It is this lack of, resulting in a Ding impulse expression. The whole community on the child's education should be comprehensive, and the children have not only spiritual, emotional exchange, but also learn to listen, so that children have the right to speak, so that they learn to express their feelings in appropriate places and times.
 
National Senior psychology coach Li Yu Cheng believes Ding bold confession to like girls, is a typical example of adolescent boys and girls Sentimental feelings, it is normal performance, but this performance should be appropriate occasion and manner. This incident, Ding obviously extreme emotions,professional site survey,hogan uomo, totally self-centered, is inappropriate.
 
Adolescent children to express love for each other is a normal expression of a person's physical development, after school, parents found that it can no longer suppress, and to take appropriate measures to ease, neither brute nor extremely suspicious, should help children flatness through this stage. Ding I should also have a positive attitude, make up your own sunshine.
 
Adolescent psychological and emotional education, the Western countries to do so:
 
Think puppy love is a wonderful gift of life from schools, parents and actively guide
 
After years of development, China's school education and family education has begun to model, but in adolescent psychology education and sex education, or inadequate. Many educators believe that puppy love is actually a "Chinese-style education" unique vocabulary. In foreign countries, education experts prefer to call it "adolescent romance."
 
In Europe and other developed countries,, people think that love is one of life's most precious spiritual wealth is closely correlated with the results of puppy school and parents guide,hogan interactive, guide properly even the good life can be a gift. American high school students dating parents think is normal, adolescent love children, most of the physical and mental immaturity, they do not have the economic base, so this is not a solid foundation of love, easy to die. When entering the vows they love, but with a wealth of knowledge and experience gradually, life experience continue to accumulate, they will gradually establish a new worldview and mate choice criteria. Past attracted people,Yao with bottles, probably because of personality changes, while difficult to combine different inclinations. At that time,nike tn italia, they look back at this experience,tn pas cher, will feel seems to be a game.
 
Finland has a book called "Our bodies," the book, parents can talk as "Arabian Nights" as a chapter to speak to their children daily, and gradually guide their feelings and consciousness. French children are very young people and let them know the difference between men and women, as well as physiological knowledge of human development such as pregnancy and delivery. When adults take the kids shopping encounter when a pair of young lovers kissing, adults would stop and tell the child, love, happiness is a natural taste wonderful, no guilt.
 
Denmark in the 1970s who had been prescribed a number of schoolchildren in 5000 or 5000 or more municipalities to establish a school psychology services, with a director of the school psychologist, two assistant school psychologist,, 2 clinical psychologist, a social worker, to provide counseling services, and guide the healthy growth of children enter puberty.
 
The reporter segment Xiaoning Yuan Xiaofeng
 
(Original title: There is a youth called confession)
 (Edit: SN017)